Quit the game.

To find love, we must first forfeit power.

I don’t generally write openly about dating, as I prefer these days to keep my love life private. But, I wanted to share a realization I’ve had as of late because I find it applicable to life outside of strictly a romantic context.

People tend to approach dating in one of two ways:

1. They pursue

2. They get pursued

This creates something of a game where your rol…